Have no fear of perfection..

It’s been a long while since I’ve had a coffee muse. I must apologise to all of you that in regard to the emails that are stacking, literally hundreds..they will have to remain unanswered for awhile. I assure all of you that life is good and I’m busy “just livin” it. Thank you for your concern and wonderful blessings that you all send my way. I am grateful and so blessed to touch so many lives.

Some of us only have “ourselves” and we need to be fully reliant on how we are able to cope with our mistakes.It is much better to accept them, learn from them, and move on. Look forward and base decisions on the future not the past…darn! this rationalization sounds so good on paper, doesn’t it? One thing I realize is that we are never going to stop making them. Sometimes that comes as a bit of a shock to me. I consider myself smart and able to toss and curl what’s thrown at me.

Our heart and feelings have a mind of their own. I’m a passionate redhead and do not give up on people or love that easily. It’s always “for keeps” with me. Have times and people changed that much? Shouldn’t love be a gentle fragment that connects you with that special someone, in tune completely with each other like a gentle lyric that plays over and over again. You become so familiar with each other that either one of you can finish the melody before the other even speaks.

It’s not easy being a romantic in these troubled times but I’m rockin’ it the best way I can and as only redheads know how to do. Sometimes our mistakes turn into something beautiful… ❤

Wistfully dreaming with my pressed cup of coffee this a.m. Love to you all.

copyright Es-tee Miller

“Have no fear of perfection – you’ll never reach it.” ..Salvador Dali

About redcontroversy

I'm a stargazing,skywatching,storm loving, sungazing addict. Environmentalist, political blogger, professional photographer, writer, favourite quote is: "If the sight of the blue skies fills you with joy, if a blade of grass springing up in the fields has power to move you, if the simple things of nature have a message that you understand, rejoice, for your soul is alive". ~ Eleonora Duse ~ soul is definitely alive.
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  1. Bruno says:

    Introspection from a beautiful mind this morning. Enjoy your day Es-tee. Bruno

  2. Toni says:

    You have such a beautiful way with words. I know your ok, and as a rare breed of person that I know you are, life will always be amazing . Living, loving and laughing keeps it real and everyday is new. So one day at a time just rock it !!

  3. Jules says:

    Estee, WOW. It’s hard to know these days how to interpret love. I’d say you have a pretty good handle on it and I could never express it as well as you have here 🙂 Keep on being a romantic and spreading the light, you ARE so good at it. Who needs a flashlight with you leading the way for all of us? As Toni says. Just rock it girl, we all love you. And I love how you express Beautiful and Mistake in the same context. Beautiful experience! Beautiful Mistake, one and the same.

  4. Jack says:

    Love=Beautiful!!! and I too love how you put these two words together. Great blog! Jack

  5. tazzzzzzzzz says:

    Love, love you girl. We need to clone you.

  6. chanel99 says:

    Whoa. Where did this come from? another home run.

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