Something More


My coffee muse took me into a completely different direction this morning. We all think of our relationships and wonder are we getting everything we need from them? Whether it be spiritually, sexually or maybe just being a good friend to each other. Falling into complacent acceptance with your partner is potentially lethal for all aspects of any kind of growth individually.

But how many people are afraid to tread into the unknown? I know I’ve been in a state of  “perpetual dissatisfaction” for years now. You get so used to being in and out of that state that you begin to think it’s normal.

Grappling with that constant is wearing. It’s been so liberating to step out of my skin finally and drop all my armor. Being with someone who really knows who you are is the richest gift you can give yourself, it requires trust.

Knowing what you don’t want really helps. Being too comfortable and accepting is not on my list. None of us should ever settle when we long for so much more.

So have I found something different? …No, I have found something more.

copyright Es-tee Miller

“I am learning to trust my instincts, rather than struggle too hard with reason.. because reason can get buried in misinformation, or too much information: and it can lack the miracle of love.”…Jan Denise

About redcontroversy

I'm a stargazing,skywatching,storm loving, sungazing addict. Environmentalist, political blogger, professional photographer, writer, favourite quote is: "If the sight of the blue skies fills you with joy, if a blade of grass springing up in the fields has power to move you, if the simple things of nature have a message that you understand, rejoice, for your soul is alive". ~ Eleonora Duse ~ soul is definitely alive.
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  1. Bruno says:

    First thing I do is check your blog in the morning, it’s always more appealing than the news paper or the stock market 🙂 You are a special lady, any man would be rich to have you in their life. Your right, none of us should settle. Love your words and thoughts. Bruno

  2. chanel99 says:

    All smiles here. xo

  3. tazzzzzzzzz says:

    More is always good and you don’t have to worry about dieting. 🙂

  4. Jack says:

    Bruno stole my line. I was reading your blogs before the newspaper or stockmarket long before he did! I’m jealous after reading this actually. A woman like you deserves to be happy. Still your most ardent admirer, (Bruno go home LOL) , Jack

  5. Toni says:

    Im with Tazzz….. More is better no diet required! Be happy always, Love you Estee!!

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